An Important Stranger: My Relationship with John Wooden
From the diaries. Joey's musing over at Straight Bangin' is a great example of how beautiful writing meshing sports and life has made clowns like Bill Simmons of the world increasingly irrelevant (at least for me). This is a classic must read post about Coach Wooden from a gracious Wolverine who is an honorary Bruin on BN. GO BRUINS. -N
NB: This diary entry can also be found at Straight Bangin', a website for hip-hop fans who like to hold Lloyd Carr accountable for his failures and freak out about the George Allens of the world. Please also note that the author of Straight Bangin' recommends spending as much time as possible on Bruins Nation. Oh, and beat USC in football again. Please. Michigan fans beg you.
My entire family is from the New York area, and most of it still lives in and around the City today. My parents' idea of a good time is traveling to freezing cold, remote destinations; a large majority of my family hates to fly; and before I went to Michigan, no one from my household had spent much time in the Midwest, or, really, any place else, save for Cape Cod. When put in one of many other ways: I have absolutely no connection to the University of California, Los Angeles. I haven't even been to California, and from what I can tell, all anyone in LA does is drive around, complain about traffic, talk on the phone, and get tan.
Despite this East Coast bias-driven lifestyle, I can't remember a time when I didn't love John Wooden, a man who's synonymous with UCLA. And this is simultaneously surprising and to be expected. Ostensibly, there is no reason why I should care about an old white man whom was most relevant before I was born, coached a team I don't care about, and I will never meet. But I'm also the same person who first heard the word "bullshit" because the Madison Square Garden crowd was raining it down upon Charles Barkley and the 76ers; the same person whose father calls him at work to administer quizzes such as naming the starting five from the UMass team that went to the Final Four with Marcus Camby; and the same person whose 8th-grade teacher was confounded by my compulsive need to recite basketball scores during morning meetings in class each day. Basketball has always been a conduit for so many facets of my life, so of course I love John Wooden. He's a mythic figure of the sport.
His appeal is understandable, overall, but somewhat more complicated for me. Famous for his Pyramid of Success, myriad maxims meant to impart lasting truths, and nurturing soul as much as for his ten NCAA titles in twelve years, Wooden is the ultimate basketball father figure. Regimented, thoughtful, observant, principled, and caring, Wooden offered a benign but serious discipline that has become legendary given the lasting impact he made on his players. It's the sort of role many men envision playing in the lives of their children, and it's no coincidence that Wooden is a venerated constellation in my father's sky, much as my father is one in my own. The wisdom imparted in reminders such as "be quick but don't hurry" and "failing to prepare is preparing to fail" is very much in the style of the knowledge that my dad has handed out over the years, with aphorisms aplenty. And that Wooden's conductive medium for morality and teaching was the same as one of my father's--I can't tell you how many memories of my time with him will forever include warm remembrances of basketball--only has strengthened the bond that both my dad and I have been able to project onto a basketball deity. We have never known John Wooden, but yet we both feel, on some level, that he has always spoken to and for us.
I understand that it's quite weird to experience such warmth for a remote figure, and it would be nearly disingenuous were there not substantial reasons behind it. But my genuine esteem for Wooden was reinforced last night as I watched HBO's documentary about Wooden's UCLA dynasty of 1964-1975. Though only an hour and general to the point of neglect at times, the movie is an engrossing synopsis of not just Wooden and his teams, but also of the larger social, political, and moral contexts that surrounded what everyone saw on the court. The common denominator among all of the players interviewed is their dedication to the basketball program's patriarch, and hearing such authentic love manifested in various ways only enhances Wooden. A formative experience in my literary career was reading a Kareem Abdul-Jabbar autobiography, so it was even more rewarding to hear from the players discussed in the book, many of whom have grown into quasi-legends thanks to the input of my father, a basketball romantic.
That a 25-year-old sees so much of his own father in a man he's never met, and accordingly reveres the stranger, is likely one of the most bizarre but compelling pieces of evidence one might find when attempting to demonstrate just how important John Wooden has been not just to basketball, but to society. For some of the more basic elements, I'd suggest checking out HBO's documentary.
This is a FanPost and does not necessarily reflect the views of BruinsNation's (BN) editors. It does reflect the views of this particular fan though, which is as important as the views of BN's editors.
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Michigan
Great school. Great alums/students/fans.
Great post Joey. Thank you so much for sharing this with rest of us. I haven't seen the documentary yet. Don't have HBO. So I am dying to see it. Hopefully I will get a hold of a DVD sometime soon.
Thanks again man.
GO BRUINS.
by Nestor on
Mar 27, 2007 11:44 AM PDT
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Same thing here
by TrueBlueBlood on
Mar 28, 2007 9:56 PM PDT
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Thanks
Also notable about the documentary is how important UCLA's campus was as a stage for the sociopolitical turmoil of the 1960s and 70s. Having watched this UCLA piece and the engaging "Bastards of the Party," about the history of gang violence in L.A., I think UCLA is undersold (relative to much hyped Berkley, although Cal did get gassed by Reagan) as a locus for activity. The shooting of Bunchy Carter was such a critical moment.
UCLA is a great school with a great history and wonderful alumni and fans. It's mutual admiration from this Michigan alumnus.
by straightbangin on
Mar 27, 2007 11:51 AM PDT
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Thanks for the kind words, joey.
You're welcome here, anytime.
MIM
by Meriones on
Mar 27, 2007 12:01 PM PDT
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I view Michigan as a sister school
Its like UCLA-East
by silverlakebruin on
Mar 27, 2007 12:42 PM PDT
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Classy comments
I think we can all recall and appreciate the (mostly) nice, thoughtful and classy comments of the recent Pitt and Kansas fans who visited BN. If I have left out posters from other schools, my omission was unintentional.
All of this is in sharp contrast to the jokers across town.
Go Blue.
by Barnes2JJ on
Mar 27, 2007 1:36 PM PDT
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Yeap
Same goes for the HornsFan (from BurntOrangeNation) who came back here to congratulate us after picking us to lose against Indiana.
There are some really cool bloggers writing about college sports, passionately partisan about your teams, but doing it with class.
Trojie a**holes from x-town are not one of them. All those losers can do is make excuses for their racist joke making clowns, supporting their corrupt and loser coaches, and just obsess over what is being written on BN or other UCLA boards.
The contrast couldn't be more telling.
by bluestreet on
Mar 27, 2007 1:45 PM PDT
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Yuck
by bluestreet on
Mar 27, 2007 1:46 PM PDT
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I knew I forgot someone
by Barnes2JJ on
Mar 27, 2007 1:52 PM PDT
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One more to add
by bruinbabe2000 on
Mar 27, 2007 5:09 PM PDT
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Joey has spoken for all of us to some extent
Joey, thank you for sharing that very eloquent tribute to your father and all our fathers, including our basketball father figure, the Coach.
(P.S. - For what it's worth, I've only rooted against Michigan when they played UCLA.)
by Fox 71 on
Mar 27, 2007 1:45 PM PDT
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Lucky enough to have meet him in 1997
My parents started dating during those glorious days. My mom didn't know a darn thing about sports (except for baseball because my grandfather was a huge fan) but she liked Coach right off the bat. A few years ago, she commented how you can just tell he is at peace with himself and that seems to rub off on you.
by bruinbabe2000 on
Mar 27, 2007 5:15 PM PDT
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Joey -- You Gave Me Goosebumps
Your love for your father feels like my love for mine.
UCLA and John Wooden and his teams were a big part of my relationship with my Dad.
Funny, how Coach's greatest impact is probably off the court rather than on it. He has influenced so many of us who will never take a jump shot or dribble a ball.
Thank you for visiting our Nation. You have made a substantial contribution and we appreciate it.
by Class of 66 on
Mar 27, 2007 3:21 PM PDT
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Good stuff
Best of luck this weekend BN.
by Card Chronicle on
Mar 27, 2007 10:15 PM PDT
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Brilliant
by DumpDorrell on
Mar 27, 2007 10:50 PM PDT
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