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Another Side of the Neuheisel-Oregon Saga

Nestor provides some details on the Rick Neuheisel - Oregon rivalry/relationship just below.

This blog post from Oregonlive (written by Ken Goe of the Oregonian) offers some additional insight -- with a focus on the coach's compassion bucket:

In the fall of 2000, my son, Justin, suffered a severe head injury while playing in a junior varsity football game. He nearly died on the operating table, and still was in a coma when I received a hand-written letter, several pages long, from Neuheisel.

I'm not sure how he knew about Justin's injury, although his Washington team had lost at Oregon that weekend.

That fall I heard from many people I met as part of my job. Neuheisel was one of the first and most empathetic. In his letter, he noted we didn't really know each other, but as a father with sons his heart went out to me.

Later, as Justin began a long rehabilitation, Neuheisel regularly wrote him letters of encouragement. Once, without warning, a box arrived at our home containing a UW football helmet. Scrawled on the helmet with a black marker were the words: "Justin: Tough times don't last. Tough people do."

As it turns out, my family is not unique. Neuheisel consistently and unselfishly has reached out to others. There are many such stories. A few examples:
After Neuheisel left Colorado for Washington, I went to Boulder, Colo., to research a story about him. I found boosters who didn't like him. I also found an athletic department official who told me when his father had died, Neuheisel had been one of the first people to contact him and ask how he could help.

"You won't get me to say anything bad about him," said the official, who asked that his name not be used in the story.

There's more -- just read the whole story.

You get the impression that Neuheisel is a bit of a paradox. He does things that piss people off while at the same time he really is a compassionate person who cares about things beyond the football field.

It''s an interesting way to be. So many football coaches are singularly focused on their team and winning that you wonder if that's the best way to be; remember, we made fun of the last coach because he kept track of the staff's birthdays. But with Neuheisel, we consider this human side to be a great strength.

Only five games into the Neuheisel era, we're just beginning to peel the layers off of this very public figure. It demonstrates that the Rick Neuheisel you think you know is not the only Rick Neuheisel there is to know.

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Why Neuheisel pisses some people off

It’s rather simple: he speaks the truth. Unfortunately, when he was younger, he spoke it a bit abrasively. But it was still the truth. Many people don’t want to hear it. They would rather live in a world of self-importance. Furthermore, Rick has a way of making you feel stupid, because he is so smart. Again, unfortunately, I think he did this a bit too forcefully in his youth. Humility wasn’t on his agenda early on, and perhaps karmic forces intervened to teach it to him, because he is indeed such a compassionate man that it would have been a waste. And now that his mind is liberated, he will bring glory to UCLA, and to UCLA football!

by tasser10 on Oct 7, 2008 2:54 PM PDT reply actions  

Perceptive and On Point

He has a brilliant, critical mind — he’s not the stereotypical meat head that people expect in coaching. (Actually, neither are many of the coaches I know.)

Tasser, I really do believe that karma and maturity were necessary to harness that brilliance and energy.

But, whatever the outward appearance, CRN ALWAYS was a true, behind the scenes, not for self-aggrandizement humanitarian. (I think it time to take back that word; associating it with Peetey has sullied it and it deserves better.)

That’s why these stories that keep popping up are so new to us. The fact that he never sought to publicize them, particularly at the time his star was tarnished, shows what a truly good person he was and is.

For the rest of my life, my CRN mantra will be “He was not my first choice but he was the right choice”. And, I will chant it every time stories like these appear.

sjh

by Class of 66 on Oct 7, 2008 4:26 PM PDT up reply actions  

There is lot to like

about Coach Rick Neuheisel. I certainly appreciate that he is a caring individual. And this is becoming more apparent the more you hear about him and get to know him. He is a nice person. And nice counts.

I agree with Tasser and 66 that he has matured. But in the process he has not lost his genuine and enthusiastic character. And I am glad about that. Because, I regulalry enjoy it.

Being in the public eye, it is important to take criticism seriously; but not let it destroy the fundemental virtue of believing in yourself. He is NOT a different Rick Neuheisel. He is a better Rick Neuheisel.

But what is my favorite trait ?The man straight up (and down and around ) knows football. And so does the rest of the coaching staff. They are a great coaching team. And as that becomes more and more apparent, we are going to be attracting our share of great athletes. And we are always going to be a fun team to watch play.

Go Coach Rick Neuheisel !!
Go Bruins !!

by northbaybruin on Oct 7, 2008 11:19 PM PDT reply actions  

The Compassion of CRN

The Seattle and Colorado press generated alot of negativity about Rick that wasn’t warranted. They don’t say anything about the good things that Rick has done. And, to Rick’s credit, he doesn’t seek any credit or attention. Mike Bellotti came out publicly and stated that he considers Rick a friend. (I wonder how the Oregon press is handling that bombshell.) After Rick was fired at UW, he was the volunteer QB coach at Rainer Beach High School. He brought sandwiches to the games because he knew that some of his players would not have eaten that day. He gave bus fare to players who had no ride home through the inner city. Rick represents everything that is good about college athletics and I am proud to have him as coach at my alma mater.

by bruin75 on Oct 8, 2008 1:08 AM PDT reply actions  

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