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In Remembrance of the Legendary Coach John Wooden

Bumped. This is a pretty amazing story. If you ever had the chance to meet Coach, this would be a great thread to share that story. As always if you would like to share extended reflections, please share them in our Fanpost section. Thanks GO BRUINS. -N

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This marks the passing of a true legend. A gentleman in all ways and my definition of a perfect "Mentor and Coach" John Wooden.

One day in the fall of 1960, I was on the campus at UCLA and walking in the hall of the Coach’s Offices and Coach Wooden spotted me and waved for me to come into his office and sit down. Coach Wooden was the legendary basketball coach and I was on the football team. He called me by my first name and said, "Jack come on in and sit down, I want to talk to you for a few minutes." I was somewhat taken aback by his even knowing who I was, let alone knowing me by my first name. I later learned he had a photographic memory and could probably name any athlete anywhere by first and last name.

What impressed me most, was his sincere concern about my interests, my life on and off campus, my classes, my major and my plans for the future. As I sat there responding to his questions I had the feeling he cared about nothing else but me. He had a way of making you feel so special and that he truly cared about me and especially my plans for the future. In reflection, this was one of the most precious moments of my life.

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About 30 years later I was working downtown Los Angeles in the investment banking business and after leaving my office and walking towards the parking lot to my car, I passed in front of a hotel and noticed a sidewalk sign that said UCLA Bruin Bench Meeting, Guest Speaker: John Wooden. I couldn’t resist going in and see if I could attend the meeting. As I approached the door, there stood John Wooden, the legend himself, standing there greeting every guest as he approached. Keep in mind it has been at least 30 years since I had my personal encounter with Coach Wooden, and as soon as he saw me approaching he said, "Jack how are you and how have you been?"

It was like a day hadn’t passed since that day in his office and this feeling came over me that was nearly overwhelming. I thought my heart would burst out of my chest. It was as though our lives had never skipped a beat. What a treat that evening was and again one of the most precious and memorable events in my life.

In retrospect, what I gained more than anything from John Wooden is learning the importance of having a mentor in your life. I have been blessed by having had a few who have added significantly to my life but none had the impact like the legendary Coach Johnny Wooden even though it was just one brief encounter, I will always remember him as the perfect "Mentor & Coach".

In future posts, I will reflect on other Mentors who have impacted my life and why I think having a mentor, can change your life for the better.

May you be healthy and prosper.

This is a FanPost and does not necessarily reflect the views of BruinsNation's (BN) editors. It does reflect the views of this particular fan though, which is as important as the views of BN's editors.

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Jack, that is an amazing story

Thanks for sharing.

The best thing you can do for your children is to love their mother. John Wooden

by MexiBruin on Jun 5, 2010 11:32 PM PDT reply actions  

That's a very special story

Amazing really. Jack, I edited your post (taking out your phone number for privacy concerns) and shortened your title. It will make it easier to read.

Thanks again for sharing this.

by Nestor on Jun 6, 2010 8:23 AM PDT reply actions  

Amazing Story....

Thanks for sharing this.

I think what bothers me most about Coach’s passing is not only his loss, but also it reminds me how much college basketball has changed since his day and not for the better, IMHO. More than that, who out there in coaching is the type of person that Coach Wooden was? His loss leaves a huge void when you consider all he was in totality.

I may work with the Waves, but I'm still a Bruin!

by BlueWave on Jun 6, 2010 12:09 PM PDT reply actions  

Fantastic story, Jack

It is telling that you consider that encounter to be one of the most precious moments in your life. I’m sure Coach was genuinely happy to see you, but I’ll bet he didn’t assume his actions would be that moving. That’s not meant to take anything away from your reunion – I’m saying, that just who Coach was – kind, thoughtful, caring, humble, genuine. Finding those qualities in a man of his stature was truly amazing. And all of us were blessed by our encounters, at whatever level, with that man.

Since N suggested it above, I met Coach once, in 2007. I got an email he would be signing his newest book at Ackerman during the LA Times Book Fair. I always regretted not speaking to Coach after games in Pauley, so I resolved to never pass up a chance if another presented itself. So I flew from CO to LA for the weekend. I bought 3 copies of his book for him to sign, and when it was my turn, I nervously told him 2 of them were for a couple of old college friends. Without hesitation, he turned to me and grinned and said, “I’ll bet they’re not that old”. Already in awe, I struggled for something intelligent to say, but mumbled something nonsensical instead. He took a couple pictures and said “Thank you, Greg”. The whole thing lasted maybe a minute, but I will remember that minute forever.

“Thank me?”, I thought. What? Doesn’t this guy know how great he is? The thing is, though, he never thought about himself that way. Kind, thoughtful, caring, humble, genuine. What a rare and wonderful set of qualities in a man.

greg in denver - UCLA guy for life

by gbruin on Jun 6, 2010 3:41 PM PDT reply actions  

What An Absolutely Lovely Story

Thank you so much for sharing this with us.

Love My Bruins

by Bruingirl83 on Jun 7, 2010 8:03 AM PDT reply actions  

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